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Is "themself" correct?

I hear many people these days on TV and radio using "themself." So why are they using it and what are they trying to communicate? Let's think about it logically. "Self" refers to one person. When you're using "them," you're talking about multiple people, not just one person. Some people are using the term "themself" as a way to get around unknown gender without having to say a mouthful like "himself or herself." However, "themself" is not correct.

For example, someone might say, "A person can find themself in a precarious situation very quickly."
The grammatically correct way to say this is, "A person can find himself or herself in a precarious situation very quickly."

Also, "hisself" is not correct. I have heard this one many times too. I think this is really just a result of lazy speech. Swallowing that "m" is somewhat easier. However, it is not a word.

Correct:
themselves
myself
himself
herself
yourself

Incorrect:
themself
theirself
hisself

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